Etiquette Plus

Ideally, for a boy this means trousers, a shirt, and a jacket, vest or classic sweater. For girls, a party dress, dressy shoes, and white tights are very appropriate. No slacks or shorts on little girls. If a little girl is in a wedding, it is unsuitable to put makeup on her. I say “ideally” because our world has become so very casual today, and many adults think that many occasions such as weddings and funerals are casual. This concept started in the late 1960′s when flower-children weddings in the field became popular. Brides were barefoot and grooms wore sandals. Tuxedos and froo froo gowns were out of the question. Unfortunately many thought a precedent had been set for guest attire. And the rest is history. Please understand that jeans, sneakers, and baseball caps are unacceptable (for all ages) at formal weddings. Whether it be for occasions such as weddings, funerals or any formal gathering, a child or young person’s dress is one of the most important acts of propriety. If children cannot adhere to these guidelines, there is an excellent alternative: STAY AT HOME. In addition to dress, appropriateness of behavior is just as important. Parents taking toddlers to religious ceremonies should sit near the aisle. As soon as the child starts fussing, do not give him/her car keys to play with. Instead, PROMPTLY leave the sanctuary. Dear parents, the noise is very distracting!